All over the United States of America, men and women have opened up to the idea of interracial dating. Which the paradigm shift started back in the 1980, it took people a while to understand the benefits of dating outside their race. Since the landmark 1967 verdict that made interracial marriages legal, the rate of interracial relationships has grown multifold. According to the data published in the US census of 2008, about 15 percent of all marriages in the United States are considered interracial.
It is also worth mentioning that the rate of white men – white women relationships in the United States has grown by a staggering 9% in the last three and a half decades. Black Women White men dating is popular. If you’re looking to try something out of the box and wish to date a black woman, here are a few tips that are worth considering:
·Focus on similarities rather than differences: We all enter a relationship with our own history, culture and experiences. But when are speaking about interracial dating, things tend to get fairly complex. The differences here are way more than your color or language. Your primary goal should be on bridging the differences rather than creating dissimilarities.
·Don’t tell her that racism doesn’t exist: It cannot be denied that the foundation of the United States was built on race. Saying that you no longer see color is an attempt to ignore the culture, language as well as the social barriers experienced by the non – whites in America. Racism is reality and you certainly cannot deny it. She would think of this as your way of saying you know more about her culture than she does.
·Understand the cultural and physical dissimilarities between a black woman and women belonging to other races: The first thing that would come to your mind is her hair. He would stay away from the pool and nothing in the world can change her decision on that. Another problematic aspect is the body type. Don’t take stereotypes into consideration – the slim, long legged beauty you’d have seen on magazine covers. No black woman is like that and you should certainly stop expecting her to look like those stereotypes.
·Race as the only criteria to date her: Using race as the preliminary criteria to date her is an insult. This shows that you have a fetish and when you would get over that fetish, she would no longer seem attractive to you. Bear in mind that black women are aware of the kind of fetishes that white men have and making a remark that connects race with dating would be considered rude.
You’d probably know of a lot of white men who have successfully dated black women. If you too want to join white men looking for black women, follow the aforementioned guidelines.