Don’t Act Like You’re Black (You’re Not)
There are many stereotypes of what black women are like, to the point where many white men feel like they need to ‘act black’ in order to impress black women. Last time we checked, a black woman was still a woman.
White men who have a difficult time viewing a black woman the same way that they would view a white women are going to have a hard time when it comes to interracial dating.
The biggest challenge
The biggest challenge with dating black women is overcoming the issues in your mind. One of the reasons why you feel intimated by a black woman may be because of misconceptions you have about her culture. It’s possible to be prejudiced against these women, no matter how physically attractive you find her.
In the same way you wouldn’t let some silly prejudice in your mind stop you from talking to a woman who is short or tall, don’t let your internal conflict about the color of her skin influence the way you treat her.
Why would black women want to date you?
A big mistake that many white men make when it comes to dating woman of color is assuming that these women are only in it for the sex and the money.
If this is your mindset, you’ll have a difficult time finding a self-respecting black woman who wants to be with you. She wants what any other lady wants – to be respected by you. She wants to know that you like her for who she is, and she wants to know that you’re proud to be with her.
How to attract the best black woman for dating
This can be easy or hard, it totally depends on you. Let’s assume you wish it were easy. It is really simple- all you have to do is to be yourself. Though this may sound a little cliche and boring, it’s truly a sure path to successfully attract a black woman.
They get the red alert as soon as you start trying so hard to be someone/something you’re certainly not!
They know when people are trying to be something they are not, so do not try to be what you think they want you to be.
Obviously, chances are that not every black woman you meet will like you, that’s life. But if you try to follow these rules, the chances are higher that you’ll stand out as being honest and attract good black women for dating.
Online dating- a big opportunity to meet black women
Funnily, a lot of black women admire white men. Some of them wish they’re in an interracial relationship with a white guy.
Along with their desire to date outside of their race, there is also a lot of apprehension.
They might be wondering things like. Do white guys like me? How will my friends and family think about dating outside my race? How will I feel when people laugh at us?
She is haunted by these fears and that’s why she will want to look for you in a place devoid of gossip and hate. Yes, that place sure exists- and that’s online.